My Weird Monday Morning Routine That Actually Works
Mondays used to wreck me. I'd hit snooze five times, drag myself out of bed, and spend the whole morning dreading the week ahead. Then I accidentally discovered a morning routine that made Mondays actually bearable.
I never thought I'd be someone who wakes up early voluntarily. I'm not a morning person. But this routine changed everything. Mondays went from being the worst day of the week to being... fine. Actually fine. And that's huge for me.
It Started by Accident - A Happy Mistake
One Monday my alarm didn't go off. Woke up in a panic thinking I was late. Checked the time - I'd set my alarm an hour early by mistake. Had a whole extra hour before work.
Instead of going back to sleep, I just... hung out. Made coffee slowly, played a simple game, sat on my couch doing nothing. When it was actually time to get ready, I felt weirdly calm. Best Monday I'd had in months.
That extra hour made all the difference. I wasn't rushing. I wasn't stressed. I was just... existing. And when I got to work, I was actually ready for it instead of still trying to wake up.
I realized that my usual Monday mornings were terrible because I was going from sleep to work mode with no transition. My brain needed time to wake up, but I never gave it that time.
Decided to Keep Doing It - Making It Intentional
Next Monday I woke up an hour early on purpose. Did the same thing - slow morning, no rush, time to actually wake up before jumping into work mode.
The difference was huge. Instead of feeling like Monday was attacking me the second I woke up, I eased into it. Had time to mentally prepare for the week instead of just being thrown into it.
I've been doing this for about three months now, and it's become non-negotiable. I can't go back to rushing through Monday mornings. The calm start to the week is too valuable.
My coworkers noticed the change too. I'm more pleasant on Mondays, more focused, less stressed. That extra hour in the morning makes me a better employee and a better person.
What I Do - Simple and Low-Pressure
Nothing fancy. Wake up at 6:30 instead of 7:30. Make coffee and actually enjoy drinking it instead of chugging it. Play a calm game or read for 20 minutes. Just exist peacefully before the day gets busy.
The key is doing low-pressure stuff. I'm not working out or doing anything productive. I'm just being awake and calm. That's it. No goals, no pressure, just time to wake up.
Sometimes I'll just sit on my couch with my coffee and do nothing. Sometimes I'll play a simple puzzle game. Sometimes I'll read a few pages of a book. The activity doesn't matter - what matters is that it's calm and low-pressure.
I don't check my phone during this time. No emails, no social media, no news. Just me and whatever calm activity I've chosen. It's like a buffer between sleep and work.
Why It Works - The Science of Transitions
Regular mornings felt like going from zero to sixty instantly. Alarm goes off, get up, rush through getting ready, run to work. No transition time, just straight into stress.
Now I have a buffer. An hour where I'm awake but not in work mode yet. By the time I actually start working, I'm ready for it instead of still trying to wake up.
I think part of why it works is that it gives my brain time to fully wake up. When you go straight from sleep to high-stress activities, your brain is still in sleep mode. But when you give it time to transition, it's actually ready for the day.
It also sets a calm tone for the whole day. Starting Monday morning stressed and rushed sets you up for a stressful day. Starting calm and relaxed sets you up for a better day.
Weekends Are Different - I Still Need Sleep
I don't do this on weekends. On Saturdays and Sundays I sleep in. The early wake-up is just for workdays when I need that calm start to handle the week.
Some people keep the same schedule every day. That's not me. I need my weekend sleep. But Monday through Friday? Early, calm mornings all the way.
I've found that having different routines for weekdays and weekends works better for me. Weekdays need structure and calm starts. Weekends need rest and flexibility.
The key is that I'm consistent during the week. Every Monday through Friday, I wake up early and have that calm hour. The consistency makes it easier to maintain.
Try It Maybe - It Might Work for You
I'm not saying everyone should wake up early. Some people are productive at night and mornings will never work for them. But if you hate Mondays and drag yourself through every morning, maybe try waking up earlier just to not rush.
Give yourself time to actually be awake before you have to be productive. Might help, might not. But it completely changed Mondays for me, so it's worth a shot.
You don't have to wake up an hour early - even 30 minutes can make a difference. The key is having that transition time, not the specific amount of time.
Mondays don't have to be terrible. They can just be... days. And sometimes that's enough. Sometimes just making Mondays bearable instead of awful is a huge win.
Routine tinkerer & social gamer
Jordan experiments with small routine changes—like early mornings and casual game sessions—to make weekdays feel less stressful.